If you're like me, and can't help overthinking everything, then you have an endless list of 'shoulds' weighing on you. The holidays pile on more. Is there relief from the tyranny of shoulds?
My brain has different characters in it but the stories are very similar. After reading your essay though, I know I'm going to laugh at myself and think "Tyranny of Shoulds" whenever I catch myself caught in that thought cycle. 😆
Long ago, I let go of my should revolving around housework and decorating. I actually enjoy decorating, but if there I no time simply place a Christmas centerpiece on the table and declare it done.
My brain has different characters in it but the stories are very similar. After reading your essay though, I know I'm going to laugh at myself and think "Tyranny of Shoulds" whenever I catch myself caught in that thought cycle. 😆
Awareness is part of the solution! As soon as my brain says “I should” I stop. The dust is starting to pile up tho.
Long ago, I let go of my should revolving around housework and decorating. I actually enjoy decorating, but if there I no time simply place a Christmas centerpiece on the table and declare it done.
Ha! I'm going to steal your idea. It's not about short cuts -its about setting reasonable priorities.
Liberating myself from the tyranny of shoulds as a holiday gift to myself. Breathe. Thanksgiving is next week? Ack!
It’s amazing how fast the shoulds cascade. I’m really making an effort to not be held hostage.